expectations

If life was graded on a 1-10 scale, 11 being something truly great, I would say my average would be about a 7. (I feel I have lead a good life) The problem is from time to time I expect 11's. When I am planning something I am passionate about a project or prospect I want better than the best; the nicest I can get with the resources I have.

Then reality kicks in. When other people are involved I soimetimes place the same expectations on them as I do myself, that is not fair to them or me. When I long for an 11 from someone else I they usualy "fail" me. The reality is I failed, by expecting more than anyone can offer I will be let down every time. Also I find that I become down for a period of time while I realign with reality.

When I go with the flow and do not expect anything, it is those moments where I am supprised and belssed by the unexpected. When will I learn?